Signs You Are Dating A Narcissist.

Today, I will point out the signs you are dating a narcissist and how to handle it.

What is a narcissistic relationship?

A narcissistic relationship is one where one partner has a very high level of self-involvement and self-absorption, and the other feels neglected and unimportant. Sometimes, the signs you are dating a narcissist cannot be detected immediately.

This can be a difficult situation to deal with, as it can be hard to get the attention and care you need from someone who is so wrapped up in themselves.

If you are in a narcissistic relationship, you may feel like you’re always playing second fiddle, and that your own needs are never fully considered or met.

It is important to remember that you have a right to your own needs and feelings, and to be treated with respect.

If you are finding it hard to deal with a narcissist, it may be helpful to talk to a therapist or counselor who can help you understand the situation and find ways to cope.

There is no easy solution to being in a narcissistic relationship, but with understanding and patience, it is possible to make it work.

Oftentimes, the individual is entrenched in love during the courtship with a narcissist that it is hard to abort the relationship, especially with finances, kids, and time invested.

Effects of a narcissistic relationship.

A narcissistic relationship can be very damaging to your emotional and mental health. It can leave you feeling angry, hurt, humiliated, and even depressed.

You may find yourself second-guessing your decisions, questioning your self-worth, and doubting your abilities.

A narcissist is someone who is excessively preoccupied with themselves and their own needs. They have an inflated sense of self-importance and a strong need for admiration and attention. They may be charming and charismatic at first but soon reveal their true colors.

Narcissists are often manipulative and controlling and can make you feel like you are walking on eggshells around them. I will say this, dealing with this personality type is not for the weak.

Standing your ground will give you a slight advantage depending on the predicament.

Causes of a narcissistic relationship.

There are many different causes of a narcissistic relationship. The most common cause is when one partner feels inferior to the other. This can be due to many factors, such as low self-esteem, insecurity, or a lack of confidence.

Other causes include a need for attention and approval, and a desire to be in control. Narcissistic relationships can also be the result of childhood trauma or abuse, such as neglect or emotional abuse.

In some cases, it may be due to a mental health condition, such as Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Whatever the cause, narcissistic relationships are often characterized by a lack of empathy, manipulation, and control.

Personally, I think all of us have, to some degree, possess a pinch of narcissism inside of us. The spectrum is so vast that if you dissect it, some traits can fit a “normal” individual.

So, what are some more signs you are dating a narcissist? Follow along.

The signs you are dating a narcissist are:

A) They take advantage of others: This is a common theme with NPD. Take a look at some of the managers and bosses.

B) Needing incessant admiration: Sustenance to a narcissist is admiration. Social media has spawned a whole new generation of NPD.

C) They believe they are special and unique: Ego should be their middle name for how they think of themselves. Some think they are above the law.

D) Having a fragile ego: Yes, their ego is weak, and this is why they need others to validate them because they self-loathe internally, especially the covert ones.

E) Difficulties retaining healthy relationships: Narcissists self-sabotages and do not hold accountability for their actions. They cannot maintain the fraud forever, so that they will monkey branch to another relationship.

F) Critical: I know from experience that my erstwhile narcissist used to love talking about people behind their backs to make herself look good. Look out for this behavior.

G) No empathy: I sometimes wonder if they have a soul. Believe it or not, they do, they just perfected the mask they wear daily.

H) Charming: These individuals are quite charming. They can love bomb you with the best lines and actions; however, they cannot sustain the fraud for too long.

Conclusion

The conclusion of dealing with a narcissistic relationship is that it is often best to walk away. Many people find themselves in relationships with narcissists and stay, hoping that the person will change.

However, this is often not the case. Narcissists are often unwilling or unable to change, which can leave you feeling stuck and trapped.

If you find yourself in this situation, it is important to remember that you have the power to walk away.

This can be a difficult decision to make, but it is often the best thing for your mental and emotional health. Walking away from a narcissistic relationship can be one of the most liberating things you can do.

It allows you to take back your power and start fresh. If you are in a narcissistic relationship, remember that you are not alone.

Some people understand what you are going through and can help you decide to walk away.

Furthermore, going no contact can help save your mental and spiritual being in the long run. Keeping in touch with the narcissist only gives them fuel whether it is good or bad, they will take it.

Stay blessed, and do not be afraid to set boundaries to protect yourself.